There Is No Right Way to Do Things

The notion of correctness is fluid, ever-changing based on the lens through which it is viewed.

Published March 23, 2024 ET

And there's no such thing as "right"...

The very notion of correctness is fluid, ever-changing based on the lens through which it is viewed.

Consider the architect, whose designs might be lauded for their swift execution in one breath and critiqued for lacking elegance in another. Or the writer, whose prose can be adored for its poetic elegance, yet criticized for not being direct enough. Therein lies a universal truth: the rightness of an approach is subjective, often a prisoner of the moment's needs - speed, elegance, thoroughness, each has its moment under the sun, but rarely at the same time.

This realization, while simple, is not easy to digest. It suggests an impossibility - a ceaseless quest for a ubiquity that does not exist. Many schools of thought promise paths to perfection, yet each is but a mirage, a reflection of the observer's priorities and prejudices. To offer one's work to the world is to willingly step into a storm of judgment, where your chosen path may be dismissed not on its merits, but because it does not align with the variable someone else holds dear.

To be a creator is to be vulnerable. It is to lay bare your vision, only to have it scrutinized through lenses you may not even recognize. And it's here, in this intersection of creation and critique, that the creator's journey finds its heart.

Yes, this path is fraught with pain - the pain of misunderstanding, of misinterpretation, of dismissal. But it is also where the beauty of creation lies. For every critique born of a differing perspective, there is an opportunity to see your work through new eyes, to explore the dimensions of its impact in ways you may not have considered.

Understand that the reception of your work is not a single note, but a symphony. It will swell with praise and dip into criticism, often simultaneously. This is not a sign of failure, but a badge of honor. It means you've touched the spectrum of human experience, resonating on frequencies both familiar and foreign.